The Stone Diaries (1994) By Carol Shields

 

The Pulitzer Prize winning Stone Diaries by Carol Sheilds is a fairly structured, complicated, and mostly well-written biography of a woman named Daisy born 1905 in far western Canada. Her mother Mercy dies in childbirth. Her father, Cuyler Goodwill, a worker in a stone quarry, traumatized by this turns to a neighbor lady Clarentine to care for the newborn.

Eventually, Clarentine will leave her husband and move to Winnipeg to the home of one of her sons, Barker, taking Daisy with her. Barker is a professor, well-known botanist and research expert on the spring-flowering Lady’s Slipper, but from a more practical standpoint it was his work on improving the Marquist hybrid of hearty spring red wheat that won him acclaim, and a military exemption from World War I.

Cuyler will provide financial support for his daughter but does not see her. Considered an expert in stone work, Cuyler is presented as an uneducated bumpkin in Chapter 1, but he somehow becomes a partner in a limestone mining company in Bloomington, Indiana, and transforms into a leading Chamber of Commerce type citizen.

As his career advances Barker will be advanced to the Agricultural Department of the Canadian government headquartered in Ottawa. And Daisy will move into her father’s palatial home in Bloomington and attend college.

As is expected for the time period, Daisy will marry. On her honeymoon in Paris, her husband dies in an accident making her an incredibly young widow; until she takes on her second husband, Barker, her senior by 20-some years.

Got all that?  Like I said, it is complicated.

At this point, the book becomes less complicated, and more interesting. It takes us through chapters titled Marriage, Love, Motherhood, Work, Sorrow, Ease, Illness and Decline, and finally Death.

Daisy has had two lifelong friends, nicknames Fraida and Beans. Her interactions with them, primarily through letter writing are priceless, and remind me closely and favorably of one of my favorite movies: How to Make an American Quilt. If you have not seen the movie (you should) it is comprised of weekly quilt-making meetings of old friends and relatives where personal and private trials and tribulations, loves and hates, are discussed in a manner that only close friends can understand. These are heartfelt discussions common among women, and nonexistent among men.

The book never lost my attention, though parts of it irritated me, Chapter 1 in particular. But read it, do not skip it, it provides too many connecting details – not the least of which is the “relic” discovered as Daisy’s children shift through her belongings after her death.

Recommendation: Yes