I have re-read The Mayor of
Castro Street by Randy Shilts each June since it was it published in 1982,
but I have never written a review of it. It is a very personal book for me. I call it my bible.
For gay activists, even ones like me who call ourselves “retired
from the frontlines” The Mayor is our collective autobiography. Its subtitle … “The Life and Times …” is
us, and though we may not march at the head of the parade any longer, it’s OUR
parade. This weekend’s Pride Parade will
mark my 41st. And in reality, gay activists may move to the
sidewalks, but we never really retire because just living our lives honestly is a political act.
Several years ago, no, more than that I’m afraid, the late and
wonderful Paul Varnell, a nationally syndicated gay newspaper columnist in
Chicago and close friend, and I, had the delight of jointly interviewing journalist/author RandyShilts over dinner when he was doing a book tour for his epic And the Band Played On. During the interview I mentioned to Randy
(hard to call him Shilts, he was way too cuddly) the importance of The Mayor to me. He said he wrote
The Mayor because “the story” needed to be told, however he had never expected it
to have the impact on gay readers that it does.
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The story details some of the key chapters in the modern day gay rights
movement – a historic sea change that has occurred in our lifetimes. While there are skirmishes yet to be fought,
and probably re-fought, the war was effectively won this week with the Supreme
Court’s ruling on marriage equality. The
promise of "equality under the law" has one meaning, you either have it, or you do not; to me it’s never been a difficult concept to
grasp.
How far the gay movement has come, and how difficult the road has been, is
what will always remain important about The Mayor. When Harvey Milk and the rest of us were growing up, being gay
wasn’t just considered a “perversion” it was an actual criminal offense. At the time, the idea of gay marriage didn’t
even rise to the level of science fiction.
People lost their jobs, and were barred from many occupations. They automatically lost the custody of their
children, and were usually even denied visitation. Establishments that served
gays were routinely extorted by the police for payoffs, and then raided anyway, with
the names of those arrested published in newspapers. So-called “professionals” considered barbaric
electric shock therapy a “cure.” Gay
kids were routinely thrown out by their parents, ostracized and bullied and
beaten by their peers. Religious figures
made profitable careers out of preaching hatred, and (ironically) called gay men
pedophiles. Our relationships were not considered “real”
relationships, no matter how many years they had existed. And our government knowingly ignored AIDS until
it became an uncontrollable epidemic that began impacting others. And throughout all of this, most -- but not all -- of straight
America stood by silently, not wanting to acknowledge what was happening all around them.
As we celebrate its demise, it is important that we never lose this
history.
The Mayor is the book I always recommend to non-gay people because
it, better than any other, describes chapters of American history that they
are probably unaware of, even though they lived through it. And its story, our story, my story -- is what
I want every young gay person to know, to be proud of, and to never
forget.