The title seems a bit cutesy, until you know its meaning. A
Backpack, a Bear, and Eight Crates of Vodka by Lev Golinkin, is a
remarkable book. Hilarious in parts, it
is an autobiography covering some not so funny topics.
In most major cities in America during the 70’s and 80’s,
one routinely saw countless demonstrations under the banner of Save
Soviet Jews. Golinkin’s life
today is a result of those demonstrations.
He was just ten years-old when his family was finally able to flee the
Soviet-era Ukraine. The book tells of
the Golinkin family’s life in the Ukraine and the bureaucratic process of
leaving, blocked by the Soviets, and bureaucratically hampered again by the
West. It covers their time as refugees
without a state, and their eventual settlement in the United States.
But the book is not simply about the politics and geography of
what happens to refugees, it is also about what being a refugee does to people
as individuals.
Throughout the USSR and its vassal states, Jews were second
class citizens subjected to civil, social and physical abuse. In the Ukraine the day-to-day reality was so
all-encompassing that Lev’s self-esteem was rock bottom as a child, and destroyed
entirely once he entered school. He was
a “Zhid.” While the etymology of that
word is open to debate, its use in the Russian vernacular was not. It meant not just a “nasty Jew,” but as a group “an
epidemic, a sinister cancer that Russians felt was ravaging their country.” That’s what his classmates were taught in
school. Lev stayed away from school as often
as possible, and stopped looking at himself in mirrors because the reflections
confirmed his status.
The stateless refugee time period added more layers to his esteem
problem. Though they were relieved to be
relatively free from overt discrimination, his family was now dependent on the
generosity of others.
Once in the US, the Golinkins faced the challenges common to
all immigrants: language, lack of
documentation (birth certificates, education degrees, etc.) and other
employment barriers. His father was a prominent engineer in Russia and his mother a
doctor. But they had to start over again
in their new home, his father in a clerical job, and his mother as a coffee barista. Perhaps worse was the increasingly evident
realization by Lev that having freedom of religion is a complicated right, especially when
religion was a factor in one's years of oppression.
The impact of the psychological damage was/is lasting; dealing
with its consequences is what led Golinkin to write about it. After years of holding it in, he needed to acknowledge
everything that had happened to him and his family, and hundreds of thousands
of others, and how it impacted every aspect of their lives. This process was an essential step to begin moving
on.
At the onset of this review I mentioned that the book is
hilarious, though by now you probably don’t believe me. Yet, it is.
His stories, about learning English, about how and when to use the “f” word
[always], about discovering there are 18 towns in the U.S. named Lafayette, and more -- is all great material, particularly when one considers the tradition
of Jewish humor. Whether this humor is a
defense mechanism on Golinkin’s part, or a literary ploy, it works to make the
story bearable.
Recommendation: a
must read!
Wonder if he will return to his birth place?
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